This is a post about mistakes people make when moving abroad.
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Moving abroad is a life-changing experience! I should know, I’ve done it a few times… in fact, I believe in its value so much it’s the main inspiration for creating this blog. I wanted to not only inspire but help others like you and me reach their goals of moving abroad too. But relocating also comes with a unique set of challenges. Here is a list of 10 common mistakes people make when moving abroad to ensure a smoother transition and make the most of your international adventure.
Underestimating the Cost of Living
Mistake: Assuming life abroad will automatically be cheaper than at home. Many expats are caught off guard by hidden costs like transportation, taxes or international fees. Or, like me when I was younger, had zero idea about living costs or how much money I needed to earn. I just wanted to go and would deal with logistics when I needed. Bad move.
Fix: Use tools like Numbeo or Expatistan to research living costs. Speak with current expats in online forums or Facebook groups for realistic expectations. Adjust your budget to include local costs like healthcare and leisure. If you speak to people, remember everyone has different lifestyles which will come with different financial demands. As the financially clueless person I USED to be, I really made miracles with the little money I made in the beginning but I also spent a lot of time stressed out and in credit card debt. Had I done a little more research, life would’ve been a bit easier and I probably wouldn’t have tolerated toxic workplaces that didn’t value and respect me. But that’s a post for another day!
Not Understanding Visa Requirements
Mistake: Failing to understand the complexities of visa applications or overstaying your visa.
Fix: Visit your destination’s government immigration website for up-to-date information. Apply early and ensure you have all required documents such as bank statements, proof of income or health insurance. For long-term stays, consider hiring an immigration consultant. Again, speak to people but do speak to a consulate/embassy as your MAIN source of information. Preferably by email which you print out and take with you on the day of your interview if it’s in person.
Skipping Health Insurance
Mistake: Assuming your existing health insurance will cover you abroad or thinking you won’t need it. I spent 11 months in the US WITHOUT any health insurance (I was 18/19!). Of course Breaking Bad made me seriously grateful for the fact nothing serious happened health-wise.
Fix: Invest in international health insurance plans like Cigna, SafetyWing or GeoBlue. Research whether your destination has reciprocal healthcare agreements with your home country. SafetyWing is one of the most popular insurances among long-term travellers and digital nomads!
Ignoring Language Barriers
Mistake: Assuming you’ll get by with just English. First of all, it might be very few people speak it. Secondly, it’s so rude! Unless you’re moving to like… the Netherlands or somewhere where English is almost like a second language (at least somewhere like Amsterdam, small towns might be more difficult)
Fix: Learn essential phrases before moving. Use apps like Duolingo, Babbel or Memrise. Join local language classes or exchange meetups once you arrive to practice conversational skills. Here are some fun tips for practicing a language on your own.
Overpacking
Mistake: Bringing too much stuff, including items you won’t need or can buy locally. That outfit you’ve never worn and are convinced you will once you’re abroad? You won’t, trust me. I like to think “do I need this to live? Will I miss it?” If not, skip it!
Fix: Research what’s available in your destination. Pack versatile clothing suitable for the climate and local culture. Ship essential items using services like Send My Bag or My Baggage if needed. But honestly, packing lightly is a better idea. It’s crazy the amount of stuff we accumulate while living abroad, especially when everything is novelty! And don’t forget you might have to move a few times… in London alone I think I’ve moved 9 times. And every single one of them was made difficult by the amount of crap I had!
Mistake: Moving into an area that doesn’t suit your lifestyle or budget.
Fix: Spend time in temporary accommodation before committing to a rental. Ask locals or expats for recommendations and consider factors like commute times, safety and access to amenities.
Not Building a Local Support Network
Mistake: Relying solely on expat communities and not engaging with locals.
Fix: Attend local events, join hobby groups and participate in cultural activities to meet people and integrate into your new community.
Failing to Plan for Finances Abroad
Mistake: Overlooking how to manage money abroad, including currency exchange and international fees.
Fix: Open a bank account suited for international living like Wise or Revolut. Use a credit card with no foreign transaction fees and set up automatic bill payments. If you use this link to open your Wise accountyou get your first transfer up to £500 FREE!
Neglecting Local Laws and Customs
Mistake: Assuming laws and social norms are the same as back home. One of the beauties of travelling is seeing how diverse our world is and learning about other ways of being and living. One of my favourite things about roaming the globe is being able to see life from different perspectives.
Fix: Research local laws, from traffic regulations to work permits. Respect cultural customs, especially regarding dress codes, social interactions and religious practices. Keep an open mind and respect differences. Diversity is wonderful!
Expecting It to Be Easy
Mistake: Romanticising life abroad and underestimating the challenges of culture shock, loneliness or homesickness. Like with everything in life, it’ll never be perfect and hassle-free but it also doesn’t need to be hell on earth.
Fix: Embrace a flexible mindset. Understand that adjusting takes time and is very personal. Try not to compare your adaptation to someone else’s. Focus on yours and what you can do to make thing easier for yourself. Don’t hesitate to seek support from expat networks or professional counselours if needed.
